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Sometimes relationships don’t work out. The danger signs of an unhealthy relationship can include:
These warning signs can act as “red lights” in your relationship. You can stop and figure out if your relationship is abusive before things get out of control.
If two or more of the following descriptions apply to your relationship partner, you could be in an abusive relationship — or you could potentially be in a relationship that may become abusive.
Are you going out with someone who:
Once you recognize that you’re in an abusive relationship, it can be difficult to know what to do next. Depending on how long the abuse has been going on, you may feel isolated from your old friends and unable to turn to anyone for help. However, there are resources available.
The first thing you need to think about is how to get out of the relationship. Abuse tends to escalate, so the longer you remain in the relationship, the more you are in danger.
Being in an abusive relationship also has serious consequences for your mental and physical health. Potential risks include:
Last Reviewed: November 2018
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