When you’re first experimenting with sex, it’s very common to experience some problems and disappointments. If you or your partner experience any problems, don’t be afraid to go back a step and not have sex. During this time:
- Think about ways to enhance your relationship without sex.
- Get to know each other more and discuss your feelings about having sex.
- Learn what you each like as far as touching and get to know your bodies.
- Talk with an adult or your doctor. If you’re a minor and would prefer not to share this concern with your parents, ask your doctor to keep your discussion confidential.
Here are some common sexual situations and what you can do.